Everyone knows he'd rather find an excuse to use violence to solve his problems, rather than talk it out. It's how Heide has developed as a character. But back to the main topic on hand. You go out of your way to break the flow of rp, and bitch about everything big, and small in OOC. But instead of...

I personally would have liked your character; Grant for being the way he was. If you did not take things OOCly from the very beginning. Grant would still have been killed by the way he has been acting, but I would be more happy about you as a role player in general. But no. Excuse me? I still can't...

I come back after a brief holiday only to find everyone building up tensions with me. Sorry but the 'end of the world' doesn't count as a reason to not repair relationships, Jay. No-one bothers to explain themselves, the actions of fellow group members, morally right or wrong, are considered correct...